Tuesday, 1 January 2013

Welcoming the snake year...


The Snake

Ancient Chinese wisdom says a Snake in the house is a good omen because it means your family will not starve. This could be taken metaphorically to mean that a Snake could never have a problem with his family starving because he is such a great mediator, making him good at business. Or it could mean that a Snake would be willing to sacrifice his possessions, something the Snake has a lot of, in order to pay for his family’s food. Any way it is interpreted is representative of the Snake’s character and is a measure of the value he puts on his material wealth. The Snake is keen and cunning, quite intelligent and wise.
Years of the Snake
Snake Years are sixth in the cycle, following the Dragon Years, and recur every twelfth year. The Chinese New Year does not fall on a specific date, so it is essential to check the calendar to find the exact date on which each Snake Year actually begins.
1905*1917*1929*1941*1953*1965*1977*1989*2001

THE SIGN OF THE SNAKE
The Snake is the intuitive, introspective, refined and collected of the Animal Signs. They are attractive people who take cries with ease and do not become flustered easily. They are graceful people, exciting and dark at the same time.
Contemplative and private, the Snake is not outwardly emotional. He can appear cunning and reticent and works very modestly in the business environment. The Snake will plot and scheme to make certain things turn out exactly as they want them to. They are not great communicators and can become quite possessive when they set their minds on achieving the interest of a partner.
SNAKE FACTS:
People born in the Year of the Snake share certain characteristics. The Snake Sign is an abbreviated way of characterizing that individual’s personality. Following are features associated with the Sign of the Snake.
Sixth in order, Chinese name—SHE, sign of the sagacity
Hour—9am-10:59am Month—May
Western Counterpart—Taurus
CHARACTERISTICS
Acute, Aware, Cunning, Proud, Vain, Vicious

IN YOUR ELEMENT
The characteristics of the Snake are tempered by one of the five Chinese elements of Metal, Water, Wood, Fire and Earth overlaying a 5-year cycle of characteristics on the original 12-year cycle.
THE METAL SNAKE 1941 AND 2001
Metal Snakes are extremely willful individuals who will stop at nothing to achieve their goals. These people will have their guards up 24-hours a day in order to protect themselves from any failure or possibility of it. They place a great deal of importance on money, but are more concerned with the possessions their finances can bring them. They are in and out so sharply and so silently that they are often unheard and unseen. You must be careful with these Snakes because, although they can be generous, they are always out for number one.
THE WATER SNAKE 1953 AND 2013
Water Snakes are influential and insightful. They manage others well and tend to be good for organizations to utilize as staff. They are quite motivated and intellectual, very determined and resolute about success. They will have what they desire, despite the conclusion or outcome they generate because it is worth it to them to not only be recognized for their efforts, but to be rewarded as well. They are affectionate with their families and friends but do not show this side of their personality to colleagues or business partners.
THE WOOD SNAKE 1905 AND 1965
The element of Wood, like in most Animal Signs, gives the Snake a bit of solidity and foundation. Wood Snakes are not as self-preserving as the rest of them, as vanity is not really his style. These Snakes have a stable group of friends and family to hang out with and love each of these people quite deeply. However, it is rare that the Snake utilize his group of loved ones for advice or listening, often opting to go at it alone. Kindness and genuity are two of this Snake’s greatest characteristics.
THE FIRE SNAKE 1917 AND 1977
Fire Snakes can be a bit loud, speaking their minds and smothering you with their opinions. This does add a twist to his dynamic and vibrant character, as he is quite the extrovert. These Snakes have a great wisdom. They are intriguing communicators who leave you breathless after a conversation. Fire Snakes can change even the most obstinate mind with their powers of persuasion, convincing you their opinions or ideas are better than yours. This does make them a little self-centered, but you can’t say they aren’t driven for success.
THE EARTH SNAKE 1929 AND 1989
Earth Snakes are the most relaxed of the breeds. They lead calm lives and offer a down-to-earth appeal to any conversation or outing. This may make them seem more friendly, as you may not feel the need to wonder what he’s got up his sleeve. They may also shun the need to lash out or take risks, but it isn’t from paranoia. They figure their good sense and work ethic will pay off and bring them much fortune and material satisfaction.

HEALTH AND HABITAT
HEALTH
Snakes become easily stressed and have to avoid hectic schedules or noisy atmospheres. They do not get a rush from adrenaline, instead, a headache. They need calm and quiet to thrive and succeed. A Snake must have sleep and relaxation to live a long, healthy life.
AT HOME WITH THE SNAKE
The Snake is very sophisticated and cultured in his choices for home décor. They like muted colors and prefer to have one very expensive chair rather than three reasonable priced ones. The Snake is elegant and graceful and places emphasis on his comfort when deciding what to decorate with. As we know, the Snake must have peace, so you may find relaxation or sounds of nature tapes next to the stereo. Snakes do not deprive themselves of luxuries either, as one of everything never seems to ease his mind. He is materialistic and therefore must have as many of everything, if not more than his friends and family.

CAREER AND FINANCE
THE SNAKE AT WORK
Snakes become bored easily and therefore change jobs quite frequently. They are very conscientious and diligent at work. Since they are such relaxed individuals, they can often seem to be slacking off at work when in reality they are at the height of their creativity. They are organized and precise. Snakes can make lightening deadlines and can problem solve quickly. Sometimes, because they like to work alone, they can seem as though they are withholding information or being secretive about company initiatives.
MONEY AND THE SNAKE
A Snake’s worst nightmare is jumping head first into a financial deal or a shopping spree. The Snake can be successful as long as he avoids extemporaneous spending. Although he is intuitive, the Snake will often dive right into decisions without weighing the consequences, which can cause him financial ruin.
SNAKE CAREERS
Those born in the Year of the Snake share the same kinds of goals and objectives in life. The occupations best suited for the Snake are listed below:
SNAKES MAKE EXCELLENT:
Scientists
Potters
Analysts
Jewelers
Spiritual Leaders
Sociologists
Dieticians
Astrologers
Magicians
Investigators
Painters
CONGENIAL BUSINESS PARTNERS
Whether Snakes are compatible with their business partners depends on whether their signs are harmonious or antagonistic to those of their business partner. Considering the congruity of their own characters and the characters of their business partners can also be very useful.
Snakes ruled by Benefit From Are Antagonistic to
Metal Earth Rats Fire Dogs
Water Metal Rabbits Earth Horses
Wood Water Oxen Metal Tigers
Fire Wood Roosters Water Sheep
Earth Fire Snakes Wood Monkeys
Leisurely activities and pleasures
LIKES AND DISLIKES
Since Snakes are born under the same Animal Sign, they often share likes and dislikes. Following are similar likes and dislikes of the Snake personality.
Color Preference: Red
Gems and Stones: Topaz, Jasper, Bloodstone
Suitable Gifts: binoculars, Tarot cards, oils and lotions, stamp collection
Hobbies and Pastimes: Astrology, painting, touring, photography
Snakes Dislike: Being interrupted, being mislead personally or professionally, failure
THE SNAKE ON VACATION
Snakes love to vacation. They get a great deal of pleasure out of just being lazy. And they love luxurious things, often spending their money on material desires they probably don’t need. When a Snake goes on vacation, he really goes on vacation. Fancy restaurants, expensive health clubs and spas, anything in which they can fully indulge themselves. Their getaways must be fully equipped to pamper their every want, or the Snake will become stressed.
FRIENDS AND ENEMIES
Snakes have very few friends because thy are not outwardly emotional or open creatures. The friends they do make generally last a lifetime, even though peers may find it hard to relate to the Snake because he is withdrawn and secretive. Still, Snakes like social functions, in moderation, where they can gossip about the latest scandal or the newest news. If you stab a Snake in the back it is likely you will never be forgiven. In addition, you should prepare yourself for retaliation for the Snake always gets the last word.
Compatible Friends
Best Friends: Oxen and Roosters
Mortal Enemy: Pigs
SNAKE PARENTS AND BABIES
Snakes will likely form intimate bonds throughout his lifetime with different partners. With these relationships come children, and it is likely the Snake will have many children and stepchildren throughout his lifetime. Regardless, Snakes are devoted and dedicated parents, willing and able to defend the livelihood and happiness of their children.
Snake parents often use humor to deal with their parents. Because they like peace and quiet, they generally use humor to avoid confrontational situations with their young. In addition, this joy of serenity comes at a price for their children. Snake parents are not known to be the most affectionate or playful parents. They do not like to roll around and get dirty with their children, nor do they enjoy loud situations, and these types of things send a Snake running for a locked bedroom door. Unfortunately for the Snake partner, he is responsible for calming the children back down.
SNAKE INFANT AND CHILD
Snake children are often loners, enjoying playing by themselves, quietly in their yards or bedrooms. They are often hampered with learning disabilities and thus need patience from teachers and parents. Teachers and parents may have to invest extra time and tutorials in the Snake child in order to keep him up-to-date with all of the other children in the class. When picked on or upset, Snake children tend to pout and hold grudges and when embarrassed or angry, they will lash out at the culprit as quickly as they were made fun of.
SNAKE PARENT/CHILD KINSHIPS
Some parents immediately click with their children and others find they will never have a close relationship no matter how hard they try to make it happen. Following are compatibility ratings between Snake parents and their children.
Snakes with Under the same roof Compatibility Rating
Rat let him be independent **
Ox pretty stable ***
Tiger temperamental clashes *
Rabbit very happy ***
Dragon blissful ****
Snake similar opinions and outlooks ***
Horse too different *
Sheep enjoyable ***
Monkey what you don’t know won’t hurt you ****
Rooster so-so **
Dog affectionate at times ***
Pig fairly diverse ideas *
*uphill struggle **some complications ***easy bonding ****on the same wavelength
Lovers and spouses
THE SNAKE LOVER
Snakes are beautiful people who exhibit quite a sexual appeal. They are sleek and seductive and if they want you, will out a spell on you that won’t let you stop thinking about them. However, Snakes are quite prejudiced when choosing a partner and don’t just choose based on physical qualities. The Snake needs a partner who can appreciate his quirky sense of humor and his wacky way of handling situations, so generally, although quite beautiful and tempting to approach, the Snake does all the pursuing.
MARRIAGE
Because the Snake is so choosy, he can become jealous and obsessive about his partner. They can be a bit stand-offish with their mates, choosing to push away emotions rather than confront their feelings and insecurities. Once betrayed, you can bank on not ever being trusted by the Snake again as much as you can bet he will get even.
THE SNAKE LOVE PARTNER
Not everyone can live and be happy with a Snake. It takes a patient soul, someone ready for the long haul, who can calm his nerves and deal with his obsessions with skill. Chinese horoscopes are very specific about which partnerships have the potential to be successful in love and in business. Yet, though destiny can point us in the right direction, we must still make all efforts to maintain loving relationships. Following is a brief description of how a Snake will affect a relationship with other Animal Signs.
PARTNERS IN LOVE
Snake*Rat
You stand to learn a lot from each other.
Snake*Ox
You have a stable, loving relationship.
Snake*Tiger
Various differences will lead you apart down the road.
Snake*Rabbit
Intense and sensual, you have a lot to look forward to.
Snake*Dragon
You fit well together…you share flirtatious natures and zesty outlooks.
Snake*Snake
You are both intelligent, but too envious for a partnership.
Snake* Horse
Outlook is doubtful…there is to much to fight about.
Snake*Sheep
You two make great friends and even better lovers.
Snake*Monkey
You can’t really trust each other, can you?
Snake*Rooster
Dynamic duo!
Snake*Dog
Love at first sight. Go for it!
Snake*Pig
Not enough in common to pursue.
Love Partners at a Glance
Snakes with Tips on Togetherness Compatibility
Rat mutually fascinated with each other ***
Ox wonderful connection ****
Tiger doubtful outlook *
Rabbit great sexual attraction ***
Dragon pretty similar paths ***
Snake must stay independent of each other **
Horse remember to communicate **
Sheep quite blissful ****
Monkey have to cooperate with each other **
Rooster stable and caring ****
Dog good combination of mental and physical ***
Pig too divided *
*dispute **keep working at it ***intense sexual attraction ****angelic

EAST MEETS WEST
ARIES SNAKE
This combination brings forth bravery and motivation. Snakes like to make money and are more apt to do so when trying to accomplish a reward. They are fairly open-minded with their money and make great stay-at-home parents.
TAUREAN SNAKE
These Snakes remember everything for they have quite a vivid memory. Don’t underestimate the capabilities of this Snake, for he will forge on until he gets what he wants.
GEMINI SNAKE
These Snakes can talk their way out of anything, so a confrontation with them is a lost cause. They are well-educated and a bit amenable, making them quite intriguing.
CANCERIAN SNAKE
These Snake love to be recognized for their efforts. For them, working hard to provide for their family is first priority.
LEONINE SNAKE
Confident and proud, the Leonine Snake hates to come in second place. They fuel on kudos from others, but will become a bit obnoxious if it goes to their heads.
VIRGO SNAKE
These Snakes love to tell others what to do. They enjoy using their energies to run a successful organization and use their intelligence to improve their title and rank at work.
LIBRAN SNAKE
One of the most beautiful breeds of the Snake, Libran Snakes are graceful and kind. They are always being pursued by someone interested in them and fall deeply in love with the right partner.
SCORPIO SNAKE
These individuals have hidden emotions and feelings that rarely ever surface. They are quite guarded with their thoughts and opinions and do not upset easily.
SAGITTARIAN SNAKE
Born with great taste in everything, these Snakes are the classy and sophisticated of the breed. They enjoy cultural things and will find a partner who will share the same ideals.
CAPRICORN SNAKE
These Snakes build their bank accounts through organization and motivation. They can be seen as snobby, when in reality they are simply the quiet types.
AQUARIAN SNAKE
Intelligent and open-minded, Aquarian Snakes like to have a partner to depend on. However, they hate to be tied down and need to have space.
PISCEAN SNAKE
These Snakes are compassionate and sensitive to the needs of others. They take everything quite emotionally and when they fall in love, they are committed comopletely.

Friday, 28 December 2012

Goodbye 2012....

2012...there's so many things happen in this year. Happy things, sad things, meet new persons in our life and watch few of them walked away from our life. This year, i lost my beloved grandfather on November. Even until now, i can't believe that he's gone already.Every year, we celebrate Chinese New Year (CNY) together, and how about this coming CNY? No more him (T.T)
Grandpa, mummy miss u so much...so do i. We all miss u so much grandpa..
Hope u r in the better place there grandpa... R.I.P.

O ya, besides that, there is another thing happen this year...my dog "Babe" give a birth 6 cute and adorable puppies. But, only 3 left n the others 3 died. Well, its normal for the 1st birth..

Well, that's all for 2012. There's so many things that i have learned this year. I hope there's no more sadness for this coming year. Now i know, i have a reasons to live happy to the fullest! Thanks God for everything.

I used to read few quotes to motivate me when i feel down...hope it motivate u all too.

 “Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don’t wait for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. Think how really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it’s at work or with your family. Every minute should be enjoyed and savored.”
~Earl Nightingale~
“Live life fully while you’re here. Experience everything. Take care of yourself and your friends. Have fun, be crazy, be weird. Go out and screw up! You’re going to anyway, so you might as well enjoy the process. Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate it. Don’t try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.”
“One day at a time – this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past, for it is gone: and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful that it will be worth remembering.”
~Ida Scott Taylor~


HAPPY NEW YEAR 2013!
^^,







Saturday, 22 December 2012

The world's most haunted places.. Russell Lee investigates.

Hello..no update for so long on my blog..n today i decided to do some update here ^^,
i spent my Saturday evening to read True Singapore Ghost Stories Book 17 and for sure many interesting stories.. maybe some people will not believe into this kind of thing like ghost or spirits..but, whatever.its up to them coz i do believe in this kind of things...
Russell Lee investigates in this book about world's most haunted places makes me cant stop reading this book until it finish...i will share it here...but, for more details, u can buy True Singapore Ghost Stories Book 17 at any book stores and read it.

1. THE COLOSSEUM IN ROME
"Security guards at the site report of hearing whispers and some have even heard swords clashing and even loud weeping. The sounds of tigers, lions and elephants can bee heard too. Roman soldiers ghosts seen almost daily".- Russell Lee.

2. AUSCHWITZ CONCENTRATION CAMP, POLAND.

"Historians estimate that than 12 million died in all extermination camps during Holocaust. Of these, six million were Jews. In Auschwitz, most were killed in gas chambers. Others deaths were caused by systematic starvation, forced labour, lack of disease control, individual executions and cruel medical experiments. A few hundred thousand people were gassed to death by early 1943 and their bodies were burnt in open pits nearby.Twin pairs of underground gas chambers  were constructed which could accommodate more than 4,000 people at one time". - Russell Lee

I cant imagine the pain they feel at that time..u will break down in tears when read this story.

3. EDINBURGH CASTLE, SCOTLAND.
The story of "The Tunnel Piper" and the "headless Drummer".
" Go to Edinburgh Castle if you've yet to spot a ghost. The chances of your first sighting will be very high". - Russell Lee.

4.OKIKU'S WELL AT HIMEJI CASTLE, JAPAN.
Okiku was a servant of Aoyama. There are many different versions story of Okiku( how she dead and became a ghost). On some nights, Okiku can still be heard counting from one to nine, still cries her heart out before returning to the well.- Russell Lee.

5.THE WHITE HOUSE, WASHINGTON DC.
"Abraham Lincoln, the 16th President of the US, is the most frequently sighted presidential ghost in the White House. Eleanor Roosevelt, wife of President Franklin Roosevelt, once swore that she felt presence of Lincoln watching her.
There is also ghost of Abigail Adams (wife of President John Adams), who wont leave this building."- Russell Lee

I wonder, how about Obama today? did he see all this kind of things too??

6. MOUNT EVEREST
" Officially, there have been over 200 deaths in the record books of people who have tried to reach the summit, but failed.The famous ghost on Everest is the British climber Andrew Irvine, who died during an unsuccessful attempt in 1924. His phantom ghost shares tents with climbers and encourages them to make the final ascent.Many climbers related touching stories how they were the verge of giving up when Irvine encourage them the determination to go on". -Russell Lee.

Guys, act there are 10 world's most haunted places in Russell Lee Investigates. But, i decided only to share few of them coz i think it will be more interesting when u read the story urself...U will love them and for sure you will enjoy reading the book.

Go and get them! happy reading ^^,





Saturday, 28 April 2012

.♥.•*¨☆ *☆.¸.•´♥ Life is GoOd .♥.•*¨☆ *☆.¸.•´♥


Life is difficult, life is unfair, life is challenging and sometimes painful... 
And life is so very good (ツ) 
There are frustrations, tragedies, disappointments, setbacks, heartbreaks and absurdities.
The simple joy of being outweighs them all (ツ)
Life is good, because within its realm, anything is possible.
Life is good, because no matter how far you fall, there is always a way to climb back up again.(ツ)
You can complain, fret and worry about all the problems in your life, but you'll be wasting your time. 
Or you can choose to focus on why and how life is so good and on what you can do to take that goodness and make it even better. (ツ)
Not only is life good, it's uniquely good for you in your very own way. The possibilities for expressing your purpose are limited only by your imagination.(ツ)
Remind yourself often of the great and wonderful value that you already, always have.
Life is good, and in this moment that's bursting with possibilities, life is yours!(ツ)



Monday, 23 April 2012

ೋღೋ. * Rules for Happy Living! * ೋღೋ

1. Count your blessings, not your troubles.
2. Live ONE DAY at a TIME.
3. Say "I LOVE YOU" to the people you love (Family,your partner, friends)
4. Be a GIVER, not a taker.
5. Speak for GOOD in EVERYONE & EVERYTHING.
6. Pray EVERYDAY.
7. Do at least one GOOD DEED a day.
8. Learn to count (keep priorities in line).
9. Let NO little or imaginary things bother you.
10. Practice a "DO IT NOW" habit.
11. Fill your LIFE with GOOD.
12. Learn to LAUGH and to CRY ( so you know how it feel ^^,)
13. SMILE and the world will smile with you :)
14. Fear NOTHING or NO ONE.
15. Let go and let GOD take over.






ENJOY UR LIFE ^^,


taken from :https://www.facebook.com/happysmilies